Wednesday, April 18, 2007

MY LEGACY, SUCH AS IT IS


When asked where I went to school, I am very proud to say to people, I graduated from Beaver College. I will always refer to my school as Beaver College, or The Beav, even though it has taken on the name of Arcadia University – to each his own.
Why do I bring up The Beav? I recently visited the campus and met up with Jeff Ewing, Dean of Students. Jeff and I go way back. He was an amazing inspiration to those of us involved in New Student Orientation. I was so impressed and enthusiastic about orientation when I was an incoming freshman that I knew I wanted to partake in that group and help the new kids coming in feel welcomed.
Though the orientation team met with new students in small groups throughout the summer, we all worked for and looked forward to the new student pep rally which was held their first night on campus. This was where we all met in the gym and the orientation team basically went nuts to try and get the college spirit going. This was an amazing evening and I’m not sure in the three years I did orientation that I had a voice at the end. The new students really warmed up to this and it made them feel like this is where they wanted to be.
After experiencing the orientation process as a freshman, first time away from home, in a school where I knew no one, I really wanted to do something special when I returned as a sophomore and an Orientation Leader (OL). While I was at home one summer afternoon, going through old boxes of toys and crap, I came across an old Washington Redskins toy helmet – and it was maroon – the new chosen color of orientation. It's important to know that orientation is planned so far in advance, that I applied as a freshman to be an OL as a sophomore – and the meetings started in the second semester of my freshman year. The Orientation Planning Executive Committee (OPEC) is the group of students, hand picked after a lengthy and multiple interview process by Student Affairs faculty, this included Jeff and Jan Walbert. Jan is currently the Vice President of Student Affairs and the key person who has kept my legacy alive. One of the first orders of business for OPEC is to choose a color theme and a logo for the orientation that year. All the OLs wear a t-shirt of that color and with that logo – and OPEC members wear their own variation of that t-shirt. This is so we stick out amongst the thousands of new students – and so OPEC members stick out even more. This is very key because it was long before we all had cell phones attached to us and when someone has a question you need to get an answer quickly. Trust me, the t-shirt recognition system worked.
My sophomore year – the color was maroon, same as my helmet. So me being the creative, but not so talented artist type, I peeled the Redskins stickers off of the helmet, grabbed some paint and painted the orientation logo on the sides of the helmet.
On the night of the pep rally – I presented it to Jan as a token of appreciation for the time and dedication she gives to orientation. I have never met two more energetic people than Jan and Jeff when it came to making the new students a community at The Beav.
Jan was very gracious at the gesture. She grabbed the helmet, gave me a big hug, and with the roaring applause that started from the OLs, she ran laps around the gym with the helmet on. The OLs then followed and grabbed new students along the way.
It became an amazing tunnel of energy – people were slapping Jan’s helmet as she passed – and we all took turns making our lap in the helmet. It became a symbol of what amazing things were to come in the new year. A symbol of new friendships to be made and milestones to be marked. It became the symbol of orientation.
Ah yes, one year does not a legacy make. Tis true my friends. So the next year – when the color was orange, I purchased a toy helmet – that had to be spray painted orange – because I don’t live in Cleveland – and yet again pushed my not so artistic painter in me to paint the logo of that year on the helmet.
And by my senior year – I was now a PROUD member of OPEC, and with the color being green – I found another toy green helmet at a yard sale and passed on the symbol for one last time.
Back to my recent visit a couple weeks ago. Jan was not around, but as I was chatting with Jeff, he mentioned that I am still there every orientation, and he took me into Jan’s office. I was amazed and touched and overwhelmed with a feeling of accomplishment when I looked up on Jan’s shelf and saw my three helmets, along with a painted safari hat, hockey mask, more football helmets, and various other forms of hats with logos and signatures. After I left, the legacy of the helmet was passed on by other OLs, other students. People I have never met and probably never will. People who never knew how that first lap with the first helmet felt. The energy and pride it brought to the orientation staff that night. They will never know how that felt, yet they felt so strongly about what the symbol meant to orientation and to Jan, that they left a piece of themselves on Jan’s shelf forever.
Jeff also mentioned that Jan gives a former student by the name of Butz a little shout out during orientation, so they all knew the reason why they want to wear that colored shirt. The reason why they want to lose their voices. They knew the true importance of being the first name known to a student who otherwise felt overwhelmed and scared by the new college experience. And whether or not your degree has Beaver or Arcadia written on it in the end doesn’t matter. It’s about finding yourself, finding something to believe in and devote your power and energy to. Its about hope and pride.
So my legacy lives on. And when I think of what I created – I smile and I believe in myself all over again.
We all touch people in many ways, and we should have small reminders of the difference we make. I made a difference as an OL – and I carry that hope and seeing things with new eyes with me everyday!!
Long live the helmet!!

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

A Yankees fan gleams!!!!

It’s the beginning of another year of baseball - another year of Yankees – another year of amazing games!!! And yes, another year of having to put up with the back and forth with my dear friend Jay of whether or not it will be the Red Sox or the Yanks going all the way!! We always make an obscene bet – and we always pay up at the end of the season, but no amount of money can ever hurt as much as the humiliation I have to endure IF the Sox actually beat the Yanks! Play on Jay!!!

I am home from work today – actually not by choice – I was totally content with watching the live box score on ESPN.com from my desk – but instead I am home, on the couch, watching the game on my 42 inch plasma HD with a pizza and fries on the way. Not so bad for opening day.

The excitement is crazy – I know Jeter will do something amazing every game – I know there is always a chance of the Yanks pushing your nerves and getting behind on the scoreboard – but finding a way to bring you out of your depression with an amazing come from behind win. The names – the players - the pulling out of the jerseys that have been dormant for winter. I’m feeling the October spirit in April. I am a Yankees fan!!

I have to say that there is a small lack of excitement in my Yankee veins to see that Pavano is starting the opening day. The first pitch of the season is of course a ball; he will struggle with finding the strike zone. But he managed to get through the first inning without a run scoring – with no help for A-Rod a usual. Did he look like the ass that he is or what when he dropped the pop up? Third base to me will always be known as Error city as long as he is still there!! I am sick of hearing this is A-Rod’s year – he will be MVP. That is the worst sports observation made! Almost as bad as anyone saying Rex Grossman had a chance to win the Super Bowl! He is an annoying crybaby that will in the end let us all down somehow.

Thumbs up to Bobby Abreu – his first at bat is a base hit!! I have to comment on Bobby as I live in Philly and nobody was happy when he was traded – especially when he was traded and starting hitting the crap out of the ball. He is a good strong player and the Phillies did not know how to utilize his talents in the line-up.

Giambi – who is not my favorite player, but hits the ball and since his steroid outing has kept his mouth shut, batted in the first two runs of the game while still in the first inning -looks to be a game!!!

Maybe I spoke too soon – the 5th inning is turning into the nerve racking game that I am used too. Tampa Bay just scored 4 runs and the Yanks are down 5-3. Get Pavano out of the damn game!
I should know from experience to not watch the middle innings and to come back for the win in the end – I will never learn – I am a Yankees fan!

Now this is Yankee baseball – Bottom of the 6th bases loaded, Yanks are down 5-3, 1 out, and Jeter is up – this can only lead to a good things – sure enough – true to baseball in NY, Jeter hits a single scoring two runs and tying the game!! Kind of makes you forget the error he had earlier… why even mention it really. Strike that from the record.

Speaking of errors, if we played any other team and had 3 errors it may have been a nasty opening day, but since it was the Devil Rays, it was in the bag.

Two runs in the 6th, one run in the 7th, and three runs in the 8th – and the Yankees come out on top 9-5!!! I can breathe again!! First game down – HOPEFULLY all the defensive jitters are out and the fielding will get better. But the bats are swinging and the runs are scoring – I love my Yankees!

What sweetens the victory is a loss by the Red Sox!! Did you seriously think I wouldn’t mention it? I love this game!

Now we start the countdown of games – not only until we start playoffs – and we will, but also until we lose A-Rod – he will not be back and I am not sad!!! Even when he does well, and takes an undeserved bow I can’t get excited. His good plays are few and far between. He will drop the pop ups – he will not go after the line drives – he will strikeout and blame it on Jeter taking his spotlight and not being able to concentrate. My friend, NY is Jeter land – you will never earn the respect that he has. You will never play as hard as he does and you will never be at home in NY. Thanks for nothing…
We now have 161 (not including playoffs) games to go Until A-Rod exits the pinstripes!